Jewish Men Don’t Cheat! Ha! And Ashley Madison is a Dating Site!

Ever since Tiger Woods slipped and unleashed a fury onto himself, every woman out there has been asking the same question: “How could he?  Why would he?”  Then, Jesse James, a.k.a. Mr. Sandra Bullock followed in suit, not to mention countless government officials; gay or straight.  And as of this week, our ex-Governator Arnold Schwarzenegger admitted to having an affair with his household staffer, and this is where it gets even better, even fathering a child with her!  Not only was he dumb enough to have the affair, but obviously even dumber for getting her pregnant…

So, how could they all do that?  I’ll tell you how they could:

1. They are all men.

2. They all men who have power and money.

3. They are human.

No I am not condoning cheating, however what I am saying is that unless you are in that relationship, you don’t know all the details, arrangements, etc.  Therefore, you can’t judge.  How do you know that Maria Shriver isn’t an annoying, complaining bitch who never puts out?  How do you know that they didn’t have some kind of an agreement, only to be ruined when Arnold slipped up and got the woman pregnant…  Who knows what went on with Tiger and his wife, or the reasons for his affairs.  Maybe there were none, he traveled a lot, needed a release, wife was not around, had money, and cheated…  Who cares!  None of these men are role models, nor should they have ever been.  You as parents should be your own childrens’ role models, not athletes or in James’ case a husband of famous but so-so actress.  Just because you are a lazy parent that does more for yourself than your child, it doesn’t mean that Tiger Woods should have been a role model for your child.  Besides, he is still the same great golfer that he was before we all found out about the cheating.  If anything, his game was a hell of a lot better when he had the mistresses and a very regular sex life.  Look at him now: no women, no game!  He needed them to stay great.

I could not believe the social media frenzy over Woods and James’ affairs.  Women in shock and disbelief posting questions all over Facebook, Twitter and other sites, asking why they would hurt their wives like that.  Believe it or not, I’ve gotten into some heated debates on Facebook with women over it, only to result with me being terminated as their friend.  I guess all women should think alike, otherwise this world will collapse as we know it.

I have also received emails from women that believe if Tiger Woods or Jesse James were Jewish, they would have never cheated!  Are you kidding me?  Are you really that naive or just plain stupid?  It doesn’t matter what faith, religion, culture or background you come from, there are some men that will have affairs no matter what.  I know plenty of Jewish men that have and will cheat again.  And you know the reason why?  Partially because they are married to annoying, bitchy, never putting out Jewish wives!  Yea, yea I am sure all you JAP’s are getting your Ipads ready to send me hate mail.  Don’t waste my time.  We all know that women are joining mens’ ranks as well, especially in the past decade.

Take a look at these so-called “Real Housewives” on Bravo.  Don’t you think that when a 25-year-old woman marries a man her Father’s age, even if he is a Millionaire, that at some point all that money and diamonds won’t be able to fulfill her in the bedroom?  Let’s move away from sex for a bit, what about just companionship in general; what could you possibly talk about with someone twice your age?  Music of the 50’s, whether Reagan was a better actor than a President, or about Eisenhower’s embarrassing U-2 incident?    How long does a bimbo in her early-twenties stay happy playing Monopoly every night, instead of out partying with men her age?  Not long, by some calculations, roughly six months.

I also have to talk about Ashley Madison site for a minute.  If you haven’t heard of it, feel free to check it out:  When I talk to random people about it, I get the same reaction every time: Its disgusting!  Really, why?  Because people are going to cheat no matter what, so a business genius by the name of  Noel Biderman decided to cash in on what’s already there, and that is disgusting to you?  I, on the other hand think he is an extremely smart individual, who saw a huge business opportunity in the idiots that are already cheating and/or going to cheat , and created a multi-million dollar company from it.  This is America people; where you can start any company you want.  Just because Ashley Madison makes it easier for people to find other like-minded individuals, it doesn’t necessarily mean Evil.  What about Craigslist and Myspace, or haven’t you known what married men have used that site for, well before Ashley Madison came around?

Mr. Biderman you are smarter than all of us combined, and thanks to all the Tiger Woods’ out there, now a lot richer too!  Mazel Tov!


15 thoughts on “Jewish Men Don’t Cheat! Ha! And Ashley Madison is a Dating Site!

  1. Hey – I just stumbled on your blog and I like it. I will keep reading. Regarding this post, I have to say I am a Jewish married dad and I have been, gasp, cheating on my wife.

    I think you made some good points about the celeb cheaters, you don’t know what led the guys to cheat. Most women, my wife included, think like your friends, the guy is a bastard a-hole, end of story.

    As a guy married to a bit of a JAP myself, who doesn’t want sex, has not given me a blow job in 15 years, who is a serious nag, is not very supportive of anything I do, blah blah, and I am a pretty good husband and father, watching my 3 kids all the time, make dinner every night, I never go out other than to work. All this lead me to cheat. I don’t know about other Jewish guys but this one did cheat. Maybe we are just better at not getting caught. I have known some other members of the tribe who’s parents did some cheating back in the day. I think that most people, men and women, should take a look at their partner’s life and schedule and email and think about whether they are up to something.

    That said, I agree that Mr. B and his Ashley Madison site is smart from a business side, but it is somewhat evil to encourage cheating as a business model. My work blocks Craigslist and I am happy about it. If it were not for CL and AM, I don’t think I would have cheated.

    • Thank you so much for your comment, I’m so happy to finally get a Jewish man’s point of view. All I get are annoyed, miserable wives complaining about men that cheat! I completely understand what you are saying. A question arouse while I was reading your comment: It seems you are pretty miserable in your relationship, and have been for a while. So why continue staying in it? Why not get a divorce? Aside from having children and worrying about what that would do to them, why keep exposing them to an unhappy marriage? I’m not sure how old your kids are, or whether they see any fights or unhappiness, but eventually they will. Kids pick up on more than we think. I’m not saying you should get a divorce, I’m just curious as to why men stay, and for that matter women too… I would love to hear more from you, I think this is a very misunderstood topic by many people. Thank you again!

    • If she is annoying and you have not received ablow job..why do you stay with her?? I don’t get that part…you just listed terrible things about your wife….why don;t you have the guts to leave her…obviously you dont love her and she doesnt love you. Instead of spending all that ebnergy cheating, spend it getting a divorce and finding a wife that gives great head and doesn’t nag! OHHHHH would need to make money or have lots! I have a feeling your wife is blowing some other cock while you are being a GOOD dad and husband!

  2. You brassy wench! lol I love it! The cure for cheating: Divorce. You’re right in that we don’t know what goes on behind closed doors. I do have to say that if I were a man married to any of those Real Housewives … I’d step out too. I think they’re phony and annoying. It’s a shame when media, in it’s quest for ratings give these women a platform. In terms of that younger woman older guy relationship … maybe when his Viagra fails … she’ll be doing her own stepping out.

  3. I must admit you have a lot of valid points in your blog. I can honestly say that Ashley Madison is digusting… the downfall of modern woman is through sites like that…

    A little dose of reality and work in relationships is where we need to be… At one time i was a serial cheater….now I’m enjoying life at my pace..and it’s an amazing life


    • Very interesting Mr. T
      Read some of your blog also, how I wish I could live where you are. I have been asking myself lately why I am living in the suburbs of OC for quite some time now, when i could be doing the same thing and waking up to a beautiful clear water, and much much nicer people. Just today as I walked my dog, people walked right past me without as much as a ‘hello’. Life in the fast lane every day, sitting in smog, and traffic, people suck, and I keep wondering why am I doing this?
      Anyway, thank you for reading and for your input!

  4. I totally agreed with man cheating regardless of culture religion or background, they will cheat period. I’m myself dating a married Jewish guy (not proud of myself) fir the past 3 years. It doesn’t matter wether you are famous or not it’s their nature to cheat simply because they look for what they can’t get at home!!!!
    Btw great blog.. 🙂

  5. I know this blog is a bit old, but I wanted to make a comment. I have been recently seeing a jewish man, beard, curls, sabbath, kipa, and all. Married to a jewish unthinking, nervous, scared woman. It was like she popped out of a stereotypical film, he is depressed, tired, and angry always trying to make her think for herself. It was so bad he argues for days with her to just call the hospital to see if they take his insurance to take her daughter to the clinic, because she was too nervous or scared to speak to anyone. As a woman, this bothers me to no end, only because I couldn’t deny a child anything especially their health.

    He comes to see me a few hours of the week, we talk about all of it… he hides nothing from me, he tells me about his wife and his children, and his in-laws, and his mother. It’s a way to unload, and unwind from the stress. I’ve never dated a married man before, the thought never crossed my mind that I would even let that happen. It was so “taboo”. He loves his wife, I will never try to take him from her, he’s such an amazing guy that I couldn’t not let him be happy.

    I’m not going to pretend I understand it all, or how I feel about everything. Especially being a hispanic woman myself, I will not try to pretend to make sense of it all. I just wanted to leave my two sense.

    • Thank you for the comment. Well, there is definitely a big difference between the not so religious Jews and the Orthodox or Conservative Jews, which is what your guy sounds like. His wife has been raised that way, that’s the reason she is so timid and unsure of everything. Women are taught to let men do everything, she has probably never had to do much on her own. It’s not her fault, obviously. The problem is that your guy clearly knew what he was marrying into, so there shouldn’t be any surprise of WHY she behaves the way she behaves. This is the problem I have with most men, they marry these women who they fully know how they are and then they complain about it. I understand your feelings of confusion and probably some guilt, but its his own doing. He is never going to leave her, I hope you are not sitting around and waiting… How did you two meet?

      • Oh I know he has no intention of leaving her, I am relieved about it actually. I just hope that when this ends, and it will end, that there are no consequences for him as far as scandals. It’s obvious he has to deal with this, and he will have his own consequences we obviously chose to go forward with, but I would feel awful if it went beyond that to others. It would be so much worse for him, because one, he’s married, and two I’m not Jewish.

        We met on a meetup site for dating, hang outs, people with similar interests etc. it’s not just a dating site. We met in an chat area that was meant for friendship/chat, and between us, that is what it was for a long time. It was just chatting, we met a few times and just talked, it was like he was lonely for real conversation.

        It’s quite odd actually, I was giving him advice on stress, women, marriage, and kids. He would do the same to me, give me another perspective because unlike him, I was actually looking for someone to date. He mentioned several times when we first met that he had no intentions beyond talking, it was like a therapy session of like minds.

        This went on for a while, and then one night he kissed me, saying goodbye. I had no idea what to think or do, I felt guilt, ashamed, worried for him, actually scared too. Wondering how he was feeling because he was the religious one, not me.

        Anyway I’m still confused, but his presence is reassuring to me, and it’s hard to give up… but as I said it has to end.

  6. Here’s another single non-Jewish woman in a so-far 3-year relationship with a married [Modern] Orthodox man.

    We very much met by accident online – not in a chat room or dating site. He has a demanding career, and like ‘frogman6’ has a nagging and frigid wife, does his share of the cooking, and loves his kids. I am an escape from all the rules and laws of “real” life.

    Divorce is not an option because of deep involvement in his community, and I don’t encourage or expect it. But I must admit I hope to have him to myself sometime far, far into the future.

    We have an intense emotional bond and support each other without constantly dwelling on the negatives in our lives. [That’s what our therapists are for!] We truly enjoy each other’s almost-daily company, but it’s difficult for me to say, as the single person in this relationship, for how long I can settle or sacrifice my true happiness.

    Woe is me. 😀

  7. Lol Jewish man do cheat babe girl my best friend having sex with her boss & he Jewish he gives her everything & anything its crazy what happened if she get pregnant ? What happened ? I always believe that Jewish man never cheat but this is so different its crazy buz he told her that he love her.what should she do?

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